We had yet another beautiful fall weekend. Yay, global warming. It was the weekend, so of course the kids woke up around 5:30 AM, raring to go. We've given up on trying to figure out our kids' sleep habits. Put 'em to bed early, they get up early. Put 'em to bed late, they get up early. And cranky. No matter the tweak we try, they get up early.
When they get up early and are tired, after about five or ten minutes of sweetness in the morning, they eventually turn on each other. Each boy tries his best to irritate the shit out of the other, and each has an admirable success rate. Our best bet is to keep them busy and on some task once they do get up, so they aren't left to their own devices.
Saturday morning, Mandy went out for coffee with a friend, while I kept the boys busy for a bit. It was chilly early, and we biked to Borderstar school while it was still in the low 40's. I stuck a basketball in the main diamond of my mountain bike, and off we went to practice some basketball and play on the playground.
After pushing E on the swing and playing a furious game of b-ball with Noah (who was quickly up 3-0), we played hide-and-seek in the nature maze next door. We took turns finding each other and "scaring" each other when we did.
After biking home, we packed up some backpacks for a hike in Swope Park again, determined to be more prepared than we were last time. This time, we took a different trail, and headed up towards an area more saturated with limestone bluffs - perfect for climbing and exploring. Noah was in heaven, but had a "the grass is always greener" mentality about wherever we were. The path itself was not sufficient, he had to climb off-path, and explore the possibilities. This would be ok, if we never wanted to get where we were headed. Eventually, we did plenty of exploring, and plenty of climbing.
In a busy world, it is frequently difficult to put yourselves back into the minds of your kids, and remember just how fun it is to explore, with no agenda, no timeline and no fear. Occasionally, you nust need to be quiet, and let them run.
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Playing basketball |
Pure joy, spinning around |
Playing hide-and-seek in the "maze" |
Getting ready to scale the cliffs. |
Picnic stop |
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Elliot and his walking stick. |
Another snack break |
Imparting some brotherly advice |
"Bluffy", as Noah would say |
Yes, they ignored it, and went down anyway. |