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Sunday, June 12, 2011

Preschool Party

Noah had an amazing experience in preschool.  We just love Miss Diane and it was bittersweet for the school year to come to an end.  On one hand, we LOVE summer!  But, no more Miss Diane for Noah :( He also had a great group of kids in his class.  I planned an impromptu end-of-year party with another mom co-hosting with me.  It was a great turnout.  All the kids played and had fun, while all the parents visited.  Miss Diane and her husband came, too.  Such a fun night!  About half the kids will go on to Pre-K with Noah next year (though there are 2 classes of PreK) and half still have another year of preschool.

It was great fun for all, and I'm glad I got to know some parents so Noah can have some playdates this summer.

Benjamin playing goalie 

Molly, Maddy & Jacob playing in the water sink

Outside of the bouncehouse

Noah & Zaria

More water play - great for the hot, humid evening


Sand table play

bikes

Noah led a revolt.  Gathered all his classmates and tried to get the bouncehouse man to leave the bouncehouse.

Miss Diane & another parent chatting

Elliot & Miss Diane having a very important conversation :)

Slip & Slide

The boys broke in the slip and slide a couple weekends ago.

Summer is fun!  

Elliot just played in the puddles/water at the end and watched the big boys

Great form.  Charlie could do this as a competitive sport. 



Drinking from the slip & slide :)

Toddler Dance Party

Nona Grace spent the day with us a few weeks ago. Her and Elliot had a fun day - and Noah enjoyed playing, too, when he got home from school. Noah even read them a book before their nap and got Nona Grace all tucked into his bed. I snapped these adorable pictures when Nona Grace and Elliot had an impromtu dance party.




First Garden

I am so excited to be growing my first vegetables ever!  I have never gardened and don't have much of a green thumb.  Noah and Elliot both have gardens at their schools and have worked in gardens there.  Noah told me he wanted to plant one.  Well, so did I, but was so intimidated.  So who do you call?  Grandma Lois, naturally.  My Grandma & Grandpa have a big garden every year.  Grandma actually dug up a small bed for me on Mother's Day and said the soil was in good shape.  She also helped me pick out some hearty plants.  We started this year with 2 tomato plants, 3 pepper plants, 1 cabbage, 1 lavendar and some transplanted green onions from her garden.

I had everything ready and Noah, Elliot & I planted them after the kids got home from school.

We check our garden everyday.  We look for blooms,  pick lavender, and Noah makes sure the plants stay watered.  A month into it, and it's coming along nicely.  I have some holes in the cabbage some bugs or worms have been eating.  So I bought some organic stuff to spray on it today.  Hopefully that will resolve it.  The ground up egg shells around our plants doesn't seem to be helping the cabbage.

I'm so glad Noah had this idea.  I just bought some cauliflower seeds today.  Hoping for a late harvest on those.  And next year plan to add broccoli, too.
Noah digging holes for plants & Elliot watering

He's a good little gardener

Noah after planting our first Garden on May 9, 2011
Noah with our Garden on June 12, 2009 - coming along!
We have a couple of tomatoes starting to grow on both our tomato plants

Time to update

We realize we have been neglecting the blog lately. It's not because there has been nothing worthy of posting. We've been quite busy and have a lot of things we want to blog about and pictures to post. We've just been really busy and pre-occupied this past month and a half. We will post about all that's been going on and be bombarding this blog for the next week or so. Sorry for the hiatus.

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Date night

For almost a year now, Mandy and I have had a standing date night on Friday nights.  Noah was a difficult baby to leave in his early years, then Elliot came along, and doubled the work.  After several years of putting kids first, someone convinced us how important it was to put ourselves first on a regular basis, and so nearly every Friday night we get a baby sitter, leave the dinner and bedtime routine to someone else, and go out. 

Last night I came home from work to briefly see the kids before we went out, welcomed home by Elliot. Apparently he had been telling Mandy all day that "When Daddy get home he be happy to change my stinky diaper," and to prove his theory, he greeted me with one.  Noah had discovered Legos that day, and was happily absorbed in building stuff.  He's always been great at building creations with blocks, and I think this takes him to a new level. 

The babysitter arrived, and as is usually the case, we left with no particular plan in mind. We settled on Ponak's, one of many good Mexican restaurants on Southwest Boulevard.  Over a couple of margaritas, we talked about the week we'd just had, and the weeks ahead.  We talked about our kids - always a popular topic, no matter how hard we try not to - and laughed as we discussed their quirks, the funny stuff they'd said and our memories from the earlier years.  It's a good and necessary way for us to catch up without interruption, and in a more relaxed setting, it helps us to focus on the good rather than the petty irritants that can tend to accumulate if not given a break. 

After dinner, we drove by the Liberty Memorial and decided to stop.  After the oppressive heat lately, it was a great night - high-70's, with a cool, soft breeze.  The memorial plaza was nearly empty of anyone else, and the solitude was peaceful. The sun was setting, casting a pink/orange glow on the city, framed by a soft haze - a result of the smoke from the Arizona wildfires.  This spot affords a fantastic view of the city that goes on for miles, and in the quiet of the place, you could hear the muffled sounds of traffic, the clanking and whistles of the freight trains going by, and even the water fountains in front of Union Station.

These date nights aren't indulgences, they're necessary to regroup, reconnect, and remember why we were together in the first place.  There was a time when we'd forgotten that, when taking care of the kids literally consumed our waking hours.  But, as the person who suggested these standing appointments said, just like the stewardess in an airplane tell you, "You need to put your own oxygen mask on first."  It grants us perspective, something you can't get when you're in the thick of things, and lets us focus on the many ways our children bring us delight, rather than thoughts about how hard it can be.   

We just stood and talked for awhile, admiring the view, and I realized, again, why I married her and how lucky I was to have her as my friend, my wife and the mother of my children.  We've still got a lot left to accomplish together.  Can't wait until next week.  

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Memorial Day Weekend - the final chapter...

The next morning, we hung around the hotel trying to decide which way to go, and finally took off on 43 going south.  The weather was fairly cool when we left, but the forecast promised heat.  It wasn’t long before we got to a landslide on one of the steep, winding roads, half the road now resting down the hillside.  I’m glad not to have been the first person to come across this.  Arkansas has gotten a tremendous amount of rain this spring, with severe flooding in some places and damage like this in others.  We would come upon two more landslides that day.  
The hotel we stayed at in Harrison.






And it wasn’t just rain.  Like the storms that rolled through Joplin, this part of Arkansas has also seen several tornadoes, and a couple days before our visit, one destroyed the town of Denning.  We rolled by several areas where downed trees and powerlines, and in a few places, roofs and entire homes, showed the consequences of these powerful storms.  It would be scary enough to see one come across the relatively flat plains, but to have one touch down in one of the many deep valleys of the Ozark Mountains would be really frightening. 


We made our way slowly south, taking a break at the Fallsville One Stop, which is nearly an accurate description of both the town, and the store.  The proprietor of the store counts homemade sandwiches and fruit smoothies among his offerings, but I wasn’t brave enough to try either.  Due to the tornadoes and severe weather, they had been living without power for a week, and didn’t seem phased in the least.  They described some of the areas that had been hit by tornadoes recently, along our intended route.
Dude, it's a nice touch, but you're going to need more flowers.  Way, way more flowers.  I think the toilet paper in the beef jerky canister is a pretty wise idea.  This place doesn't strike me as waterproof.
The facilities


Looking past the cliche hound dog (Lila) lying next to the highway, there was an old building that looked uninhabitable, yet was clearly habited by a couple of people sitting on the front “porch”.  I asked what it was, and he told me it had been a cannery, a boarding house, and a milking barn.  Apparently now it was a residence.  One-Stop-guy put the age of the place at around 90 years. 




We left there, and went south through the Ozark National Forest, encountering more tornado damage along the way.  We got to the outskirts of Denning, and decided to swing by, but the highway patrol had closed off entrance to the town for obvious reasons.  We headed on to Mount Magazine, a state park that at 2,700 feet (approx) is the highest point in Arkansas.  We stopped at the lodge on top and had lunch, overlooking the hazy valley below.  By the time we finished lunch, it was nearly 3:30, and we had a long way to go to our planned stop for the night, Gaston’s Resort, on the White River just down from Bull Shoals Dam.  


Motorcycle time is unlike car time, especially in a group.  No matter how hard you try, the going always seems to be slower.  You stop to stretch, to see something, to get gas, check the map, etc.  At one point, I got out ahead of Keith and Jeff, and enjoyed the solitude of the winding, virtually traffic-free roads for awhile.  I stopped briefly at a river-rafting outfitter (Wild Bill’s), and tried to text them where I was.  After 15 minutes of waiting, I took off again for Yellville, hoping to get on into Mountain Home, and then to Gaston’s.

Just outside of Yellville the road was closed due to a fatality accident, and after waiting about half an hour with no assurances it would be open any time soon, I studied the map to find an alternate route and turned around.  I passed Jeff and Keith on the way back to town, and after a brief discussion, we all agreed to take it.  We’d been 350 miles that day, and were 20 miles from our destination.  It was nearly 8:30, getting dusky, and past the time we usually like to ride.  Keith noticed Jeff pull off to the side of the road, which wasn’t that unusual (we all stop to adjust things, get a drink, etc, but he always catches up), so we kept going another 4-5 miles to the turnoff to where we were headed next.  We waited for him for a few minutes longer than normal, when he called to tell us he had been hit by a deer. 

After we rolled up, we found out that a deer hit Jeff broadside on his motorcycle, breaking his left tibia, and causing his left leg to be sucked under the motorcycle, where the passenger footpeg tore a hole in his foot.  It was a freak accident, and he said he only noticed the deer when it was right beside him. The deer hit hit his leg square on, and he felt it break immediately.  
Not the one that hit him. This is a picture of a picture of an elk. 
He somehow managed to stop the bike on the side of the road without crashing, but couldn't put the kickstand down because his left leg was broken.  He was hunched over the tank, in pain and trying to figure out how to get off the bike without it falling over on his broken leg, or breaking his good leg.  After a couple of minutes, another biker - the pastor of a local Assembly of God church - and his wife pulled over to check on him, thinking he was having a heart attack on the side of the  road and helped him off.  

Fortunately, he got hit only a mile or so from the Summit volunteer EMS/fire department and they, along with the Sheriff’s department and the ambulance, were already on the scene by the time we got back. They got his pants cut off and the blood stopped, while everyone was asking what seemed like a million questions about him, his bike, insurance, and what happened.  It wasn’t a funny situation, but I laughed when we were discussing how to get the bike back to Missouri when Jeff, still lying on the ground, said, “I think I can ride it back once they set the leg.”


He was finally taken to Baxter Regional Hospital in Mountain Home.  Keith rode his bike to the Summit fire station, where they let us park his bike behind some 1950's-era fire truck until it could be retrieved.   I dropped Keith back off at his bike, and we rode on to Mountain Home, extra cautiously, where we hung out with Jeff in the ER until they got his x-rays back and a temporary splint on.  We finally went back to the hotel around midnight, and Jeff got a permanent room about four hours later.  The doctor told him they had three deer/auto strikes a day down in that area, but this was the first they’d heard of a deer/motorcycle strike without the rider crashing the bike.  

The next morning, Jeff nonchalantly called to say he was going into surgery in about five minutes, so Keith and I rode up to Bull Shoals while we waited for him to get out.  With all the rainfall, it had peaked at its highest level ever only two days before, and they had opened the floodgates on the dam for only the third time since it was built in 1951.  


You don't say...
We rode back to the hospital, waited for Jeff to get out of recovery, and talked to him for a while once he did.  He was the proud owner of a bionic leg, with a titanium rod from knee to ankle.  I doubt he remembered anything from that day.  I decided to head back to Kansas City, while Keith stayed behind with Jeff until his wife got there the following day.  

I left around 2:30, and took some great roads back.  I was surprised to find very little traffic on the route I took through the Ozark National Forest.  It was a peaceful ride, and I kept up a pretty steady pace, stopping once for gas, and once in some town I can’t recall whose entire population seemed to be playing in the river that ran through it.
Water's a little high




I stopped for a break in Clinton, and decided that given the lack of sleep from the night before, this was enough for the night.  I called Mandy from the hotel, and told her I would be home the next morning and fell asleep shortly afterwards. I woke up very late, especially for me.  When I finally got back to KC, I went straight to the park where Mandy and the boys were playing, and managed to play a game of tag in my boots and jeans, in the hot, humid morning.

Monday, May 30, 2011

Memorial Day Weekend - the rest...

We had a great day during our second day of exploring Arkansas, but it didn't end as expected.  The third was a nice ride most of the way back to KC.  I'll update sometime today or tomorrow when I have time.  I got home this morning, and met the kids in the park.  They weren't expecting me, and it was fun to see how happy they were.  Elliot got this look on his face like, "I think I know that guy", before his eyes lit up and he yelled "Daddeeeeee!" and ran towards me.  Noah looked at me and got this big grin on his face.  This is the best part of  coming home.

Elliot sat beside me jabbering away about Arkansas, my motorcycle, my car, and whatever else had been on his mind the past few days.  He speaks better than I remember - is it possible in just a few days, or do I just appreciate it more?  Noah and I played tag a lot, his favorite game with me.  I was hot in my boots and jeans, but so was he in his shorts and bare feet.  

The happiest person was probably my lovely wife, who not only was glad to see me, but even more happy to know she wouldn't be on call 24/7 without a helping hand.   As always, she stepped up and took the brunt while while I was away.  She said she was going to run to the store to get groceries, but given how long it's been, she may be off having a well-deserved glass of wine...