Noah had been up since 5:30 that morning, an hour and a half earlier than normal, and had no nap. Elliot, sleeping only 15 minutes later than Noah, and having only a short nap, was also in a fine state. After I finally got them to bed, I sat on the couch and turned on the TV - first time in a long time. I got to sit there and watch a John Wayne movie rather than having to explain how my day went. I missed Mandy, sorta.
The next morning, Noah woke up at 4:30 and wanted me to sleep with him. I got him to sleep, then E woke up at 5:30, and rather than wake up Noah, I sat in his room watching Wonder Pets with him. Every so often, he would ask, “Are you going to work?” No, I’m yours today. “Do you want to come to my house and play?” Sure. We read a few books, and he chattered away, telling me his philosophy on life, I guess.
Noah finally got up, and asked me the question he asks about 5 of 7 days a week - “Is it the weekend?” I told him it was, and we could make pancakes, but we were out of pancake mix. He decided we should ride bikes to the store to get some. We got some groceries, stopped for some coffee, and turned toward home with a full-on storm headed our way. The sky was black as we rolled back into the driveway, and we fixed pancakes just as the skies opened up. Noah proclaimed, yet again, that I was the best pancake maker in the world, “even better than IHOP”. He ate three of them, then claimed he had to lay down because his tummy hurt.
We hung around the house for awhile playing blocks and puzzles, then bought a birthday present for one of Noah’s friends and headed to Waldo Pizza for a birthday party. Both boys had fun, and when we finally left it was way past Elliot’s naptime. I tried to put E asleep, but he wasn’t having any of it. He talked away for a long time, and pretty soon I could here him jumping up and down. I finally went back up, fixed up what he destroyed, and put him back to bed.
After he woke up, we went to the park. Elliot spent most of his time either in the sand, or on his bike, or both. Occasionally he would stop to beg for food from a family that was having a picnic nearby. It was smoking hot, and humid, but they both played like crazy. I was sitting on a rock, watching them play when Noah brought me a dandelion and told me to make a wish. I said, “My wish is for you to have a long and happy life.” He looked at me kind of funny and as he turned and walked away, I heard him say, “I would’ve wished for cookies.”
Pretty uneventful evening. We all got up early the next morning, starting with Elliot. I tried to bring him in to bed with me, hoping he would go back to sleep, but he just kept yelling in my face, “Don’t close your eyes, Daddy!” and trying to pull my head off the pillow. When you put it that way, I guess I don’t really have a choice.
After an active morning, and low on sleep, I put both boys down early. I rocked Elliot to sleep,and I fell asleep in the process. I used to do this all the time with Noah, because that was the only way we could get him to sleep, but it’s a very rare treat with Elliot, at least for me. He likes his momma, who does it more often, and normally just likes me to put him in his crib. I was half tempted to yell, “Don’t close your eyes, Elliot” in his face like he did to me, but that would have punished us both.
I got Noah down for a nap too - another rarity - and Mandy came home soon after. I think the boys had a good time having my undivided attention for a couple of days, but they missed her. I know I was glad to see her, and realized how much work her days must be.
| Given his recklessness lately, this helmet is probably a good idea even when he's not riding |
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| Coming down the slide. |
| Trying to find apples - tart, unripe apples. He thinks they're delicious. |
| Chasing each other in the sand |
| He learned riding on sand is different than riding on concrete. |
| "Gumping" into the sand |
| Terrorizing the playground some more |
